Soulmates: What Happens after
you Find your Soulmate?
By Susie and Otto
What's your perception of
life with your perfect soulmate?
Joy, bliss, happiness--a
life with no conflict and no major issues to work through?
Ward and June or Ozzy and
Harriet with passion?
In our opinion,
that just isn't the way it works. In our relationship, we are best
friends--we have passion--we have joy--we are totally comfortable
with each other and enjoy being together. Even with all this, we
still have issues that challenge us and that "rock the boat."
We hate to
burst your bubble, but we believe that soulmates come together to
help each other to heal, learn and grow. It's what we and others,
such as Gary Zukav, call Spiritual Partnership. Some people, such
as Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks and Kenny and Julia Loggins, refer to
it as "Conscious Relationship."
We also believe
that you can find several "soulmates" in your lifetime. Wayne Dyer
said that your soulmate can be the person who you can't stand but
are in your life to teach you a powerful lesson.
says in "Spiritual Madness" that we are here to heal the parts of
ourselves that don't know God yet. We believe that Soulmates help
us to heal those parts if we are willing to do the work and look at
ourselves openly and honestly. Soulmates can trigger certain
reactions in you that point the direction to what needs to be
So what happens after you
find your soulmate?
Zen proverb that poses the question of--What happens before
enlightenment? Chop wood, carry water. What happens after
enlightenment? Chop wood, carry water. We feel this is a good
analogy of what happens in relationships. You still must face your
personal challenges but if you're conscious and awake, you can
realize that you have a powerful ally to walk beside you on your
path to enlightenment.
Many of us are
finding that perfect "Soulmate" and many are searching for one. We
suggest that you look at the people in your life--the ones who
challenge you, the ones who love you. Say of prayer of gratitude
for these "teachers." When someone close to you "presses your
buttons," look at what you can learn from the situation. What parts
of yourself need to be healed? What feelings come up for you?
Williamson has said that every thing we do is either an act of love
or a cry for help. That's what a soulmate does for you--they are
there to love you AND to help you when you cry for help. They also
have the ability to "press your buttons" and this is for your
Relationship coaches Susie and Otto
of "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" and "No More
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