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Soulmates: What Happens after you Find your Soulmate?

By Susie and Otto Collins

What's your perception of life with your perfect soulmate?

Joy, bliss, happiness--a life with no conflict and no major issues to work through?

Ward and June or Ozzy and Harriet with passion?

In our opinion, that just isn't the way it works.  In our relationship, we are best friends--we have passion--we have joy--we are totally comfortable with each other and enjoy being together.  Even with all this, we still have issues that challenge us and that "rock the boat."

We hate to burst your bubble, but we believe that soulmates come together to help each other to heal, learn and grow.  It's what we and others, such as Gary Zukav, call Spiritual Partnership.  Some people, such as Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks and Kenny and Julia Loggins, refer to it as "Conscious Relationship."

We also believe that you can find several "soulmates" in your lifetime.  Wayne Dyer said that your soulmate can be the person who you can't stand but are in your life to teach you a powerful lesson.

Carolyn Myss says in "Spiritual Madness" that we are here to heal the parts of ourselves that don't know God yet.  We believe that Soulmates help us to heal those parts if we are willing to do the work and look at ourselves openly and honestly.  Soulmates can trigger certain reactions in you that point the direction to what needs to be healed.

So what happens after you find your soulmate?

Remember the Zen proverb that poses the question of--What happens before enlightenment?  Chop wood, carry water.  What happens after enlightenment?  Chop wood, carry water. We feel this is a good analogy of what happens in relationships.  You still must face your personal challenges but if you're conscious and awake, you can realize that you have a powerful ally to walk beside you on your path to enlightenment.

Many of us are finding that perfect "Soulmate" and many are searching for one.  We suggest that you look at the people in your life--the ones who challenge you, the ones who love you.  Say of prayer of gratitude for these "teachers."  When someone close to you "presses your buttons," look at what you can learn from the situation.  What parts of yourself need to be healed?  What feelings come up for you?

Marianne Williamson has said that every thing we do is either an act of love or a cry for help. That's what a soulmate does for you--they are there to love you AND to help you when you cry for help. They also have the ability to "press your buttons" and this is for your highest good.


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