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Be Spontaneous, Offer Surprises and Spice Things up in Your Love Relationship

By Susie and Otto Collins

Spontaneous expressions of love can certainly add spice and excitement to a relationship. When you surprise your partner with an unexpected kindness or token of affection, the message that's sent is that he or she is important to you.

Spontaneous surprises are a great way to keep the spark alive between two people. We love them.

Here are a few words of wisdom about surprises and being spontaneous that we think you'll find helpful.

Spontaneous surprises shouldn't just be about sexual or erotic kinds of things. In other words, don't just limit spontaneity to the bedroom.

Spontaneous surprises should be used for all kinds of moods and intentions and should come from the desire to create more love, passion and connection in all ways. 

Surprise your loved one with breakfast in bed or exotic meals, or help plant flowers. Surprise him or her with a good back rub, dinner date and send sexy messages through the mail.  

Tease each other when it's unexpected. Nibble each others' ears and tease each other sensually. When the moment of the tease gets hot, you break away and save it for later. Then the next time you are together, continue where you left off.

Staying unpredictable makes it easier to intrigue each other.

Being spontaneous or surprising your mate or partner doesn't have to be such a huge deal. It can be something very simple. Recently, we were playing music in our home, as we do much of the time, and Otto spontaneously asked Susie to dance. Susie was delighted and we had fun doing it.

To be spontaneous with surprises, you have to know what your partner would like, suspend your judgment about time constraints or any other negative thoughts you might have about spontaneity and surprises, open your heart and just do it.


(adapted excerpt from Red Hot Love Relationships)



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