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Four Tips To Spice Up Your Love Relationship

By Susie and Otto Collins, Relationship Coaches

Perhaps your love relationship has spanned 50 years, 5 years, or even 5 months.  You can always find new ways to spice it up. It is undeniable that relationships are always changing and if you keep doing what you've always done, boredom-- especially in the bedroom-- can set it.

No matter what stage of life you are in, there are things that you can do to spice up your love making.  Here are four tips that you might enjoy trying out....

  1. Take time to find out what you want from your love making experience. If you have been in a long-term relationship, you may think you already know. We recommend that take a new look at your desires.  Let go of limits and broaden your possibilities.
  1. Share your desires with your lover.  Maybe it's a new thing to talk about a topic other than your kids, your work, what to eat for dinner, or what to do that weekend. When you talk about what your love-making desires, choose a time when you are alone and not distracted by the television or computer. Speak from your heart and without blame. Let your intention be to create a closer, more loving connection with your partner.
  1. Listen to your lover's wants. Be open and encouraging with you partner as he or she shares love-making desires.  Keep your heart open and let go of judgment when listening. We all get triggered occasionally so this can take some practice. Listen from a place of love for your partner and tune in to see how you feel about what he or she is sharing with you. If you aren't open to the idea, search yourself to find out why and pay attention to what thoughts come up. If you are open to the new suggestions, try them out!
  1. Give yourself and your environment a makeover. This doesn't have to include an expensive salon visit! Create a beautiful, loving space for your intimate time together. All it may take is to rearrange the furniture in your bedroom or other space-- and get rid of the clutter. A portable cd player in the space with some passionate music could be all it takes to ignite both of you. Leave those old sweats and worn bathrobe in the closet. Choose what you wear (or don't wear) with care and love. Your intimate time is sacred. Treat it that way.

These four tips can help you start to create more passion, love and connection in your love relationship. Open your heart, polish your old skills and learn some new ones, and enjoy what happens next!


Susie and Otto Collins are Relationship Coaches and authors who help people create lives that are filled with more passion, love and connection. For more tips on turning up the heat in your love relationship, sign up for their free mini-course at


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